However, you have to sound convincing. If you are looking for cities, I recommend you read my other posts in my Poland category. Polish girls expect to work and are happier when they are doing so. Your options are: leave or make peace with the fact. I don't want someone who lets me win; I want someone worth fighting for. Especially you show genuine interest and want to get to know his country’s history and lifestyle. I never want anything to put a screeching halt on my personal progression. Life is beautifully messy. Even in their early 20’s, they are much more mature and self-conscious than an average American guy of the same age.