I don't want someone to stand still with me; I want someone to move forward with me. They finish all their obligations in record time, they start earning enough money to support a family very soon, and they are ready to commit to having a family. She is going to date a foreign man, so she needs to be sure this man will be able to provide for his Polish wife. This is not a fake attempt to win you over and then forget all about it when he gets you. This is true! Polish people are some of the hardest working people in the world and are content to do all kinds of work so long as they are paid a fair wage for it. That is the biggest no-no when it comes to dating a lady from Poland.