For Polish women dating is something that will lead them to a long-term loving relationship and eventually marriage and children. This is most popular with students and young people. Girls are supposed to go weak in the knees at the simple thought of a sparkling diamond ring that will forever bind them to another entity for the rest of their lives. Tendermeets. Hell, I didn’t even know that there are so many rules on how a man should behave on a date. So, the “he fought for me, so he must love me” cliche does not apply here. The pressing comforts of love lure them into a cozy little underworld where two formerly ambitious people simply stop trying.