All doors shall be opened. If you can’t remember your Polish girlfriend’s first name ask her what her second name is. In Polish culture, dating is something that should be taken slowly and with patience. In fact, wanderlust should only escalate when you're fueled with real lust. I'm looking for SOMEONE. Even if you can’t score there will always be working girls waiting for you in an area nearby or if you are lucky in the hotel lobby! 😉. 7 My Verdict. She will be happy with the idea of being friends before starting to date. The first date is something really exciting and thrilling. The next step? I know some men like to give it a shot, even when they do not speak the same language.