I went there uninformed and did not know what to expect, so I decided to make this guide for you. From Poland. With vast hearts open wide, we dutifully search for that one person who attains the fierce ability to knock the broken wind out of us and breathe new life into our tired, painfully strained limbs. A dinner is fine for the first date. My greatest fear is that I will stop growing. Someone whose strengths complement my strengths because we look at life from acutely different angles. Life is beautifully messy. I don't ever want to date a carbon copy of myself. Here are some key rules to help you when you date a Polish beauty;.