It’s not always an easy thing, I know and I feel your pain. They still have a very high traditional family value compared to Western women. She will be happy with the idea of being friends before starting to date. You can also meet the love your life. I just want you to keep pace with me and have equally positive attitude to the world and meeting new people. If this is the case, then you are a girl like me. A polish does not depend on his family but he seeks their approval, even later in life, when he has a family of his own. At least, you will show her you are different from all other guys. That is the human. Use common sense, do not sent any money online and make sure you had at least a Skype session (with cam) before you meet.